Hospice Cat Companion to the Dying

The Nurturing Team met tonight to work on a project for a new ministry. The conversation flowed as we worked, and we have high hopes that it will turn into something special that will become a tradition.

At the next meeting, perhaps we’ll discuss the idea of volunteering at a local hospice – we could do a lot worse than follow Oscar the Cat’s example in how to be present.

Oscar the cat predicts patients deaths – Yahoo News

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Oscar the cat seems to have an uncanny knack for predicting when nursing home patients are going to die, by curling up next to them during their final hours. His accuracy, observed in 25 cases, has led the staff to call family members once he has chosen someone. It usually means they have less than four hours to live.

“He doesnt make too many mistakes. He seems to understand when patients are about to die,” said Dr. David Dosa in an interview. He describes the phenomenon in a poignant essay in Thursdays issue of the New England Journal of Medicine.

“Many family members take some solace from it. They appreciate the companionship that the cat provides for their dying loved one,” said Dosa, a geriatrician and assistant professor of medicine at Brown University.

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The Lead

The Lead

From the New York Times: Offering Comfort to the Sick and Blessings to Their Healers:

At 1 p.m. on a weekday, the emergency department at St. Luke’s-Roosevelt Hospital in Upper Manhattan is in full cry, with bays crowded, patients on stretchers lining the hallways, and paramedics bringing in more sick people. Time for the Rev. Margaret A. Muncie to work the floor.
Not shy, this pastor with the clerical collar, the Ann Taylor blazer and the cheerful insistence of one whose own mother called her a steamroller. Among the first women ordained an Episcopal priest and a self-described “Caucasian minority,” she’s an odd bird among the ethnically diverse staff and especially the patients, most of them black or Latino. But she keeps pecking her head behind curtains, parting gatherings of worried family members, impervious to startled looks of suspicion.
“Hi, I’m Peggy Muncie, a hospital chaplain,” she says. “Would you like a visit?”…

The chaplain is also expected to minister to the hospital staff. As Chaplain Muncie, 59, makes her way throughout St. Luke’s with a painstaking limp, she chats easily with doctors and nurses. She has sat with an intern who sobbed uncontrollably after pronouncing her first death and prayed with a ward clerk whose mother was in intensive care.
Every year, the chaplain performs a Blessing of the Hands. She wheels a cart adorned with a tablecloth, flowers, a bowl and an MP3 player. Surgeons, nurses, aides crowd around as she dips their hands in water, blessing their healing work. …

Very interesting! The Nurturing Team is currently exploring ways to offer comfort in some kind of caregiving setting, and this article may end up being discussed at next week’s meeting.

Parish Lenten Retreat

Mission

“What if I am the one responsible for going after the life, the thing, I have been praying for?” – Renita Weems

The Parish Lenten Retreat was a success, as a number of us gathered to reflect, recharge, and rejuvenate at Holy Innocents last Saturday afternoon. We followed the same agenda as we had used for the Bishop’s Committee retreat last fall; this way everyone had the opportunity to work through the exercises and see what presented itself.

Here is a short version of the agenda:

Gathering

Prayers, reading, silent reflection

Our Hopes And Dreams

  • 15-minute art project depicting our personal hopes and dreams
  • Sharing depictions with one another
  • Reading, silent reflection
  • 15-minute art project depicting our hopes for Holy Innocents
  • Sharing depictions

The Mission of Holy Innocents

Brainstorming and recording our ideas on newsprint – below is a running “blog” of the brainstorming sessions:

Outreach: Identifying and responding to community needs, shutins, ill and CHILDREN, Feed the hungry
Welcoming ALL, and then following up with second tier and incorporating new people
-Creating an inviting atmosphere – how do people find us, how do we look when they DO find us?
-Worship of God in the Anglican tradition and relating that to our mission: inseparable. Music.

“There is no progress without a struggle” – June Raufheisen

IMG Discussing Mission

The Ministry of Holy Innocents

Ministry TO and WITH: What are the concerns in our community?
-Personhood: the people we minister with are our peers, not dependents (example: L’Arc communities)
-Challenges: Frenetic lives, financial challenges, un- and under-employment
-Ill health, Caregiver exhaustion, Health care, Loneliness, Bullying, Gangs, Drugs, Hunger in schools, Hidden homelessness in the forest preserve, immigrants (HR bill being debated), vulnerability of illegals, disaster response. Animals (Buddy Foundation, etc.), and many of the above are problems of the working poor. Also; teens, sexual minorities.

Priorities: which of these concerns do we have a passion for?
Mark next to 3 of the above concerns with red magic marker to identify our priorities

IMG Marking Priorities

Hunger – 8 marks
Homelessness – 5 marks
Literacy – 5 marks
Animal care – 4
Childcare – 2

Next Steps Ministry

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Hunger – supplemental food pantry, network with Schaumburg food pantry, expanding our program

Colleen went over some of the things we’re doing or thinking of doing – food drive at Christmas, and now how to distribute food to more people. We will be asking food pantry for referrals of 2-5 families per month for distribution out of their hours.

We will be creating a pantry up in the library
We will be writing a policy (Ginny Gibbs) on distribution
Eastertide food drive
Pat Kalicki will talk to Schaumburg Food Pantry this week regarding referrals and offer once-monthly evening distribution (6pm the night of monthly Bishop’s Committee meeting).
Scott Eiler suggests a Sunday after church food-pantry program of some kind

Literacy
We will be checking with Schaumburg Township library to see if we can help with their literacy volunteer program – David Raufheisen will call them

Affordable Housing, Homelessness
Scott Eiler works for Sparrows Nest, knows some of their needs: volunteers and items for thrift shop. The shop goes towards supporting women’s shelter
PADS shelter laundry help – can we do more? Can we get together with St Nicholas to host a meal?

Animals
June Raufheisen, Ginny Gibbs, Billie
Investigating volunteer opportunities, fostering with Buddy Foundation, fundraising for their new shelter, blessing??

Evangelism of Holy Innocents

Who is waiting, hoping for our invitation?

IMG Katie's Priorities

-New People to the area
-No family in the area
-Older people
-People with young children
-Outcasts
-People in crisis
-People of other religions
-Gays and lesbians
-Questioners trying to reconcile faith with their intellectual pursuits
-Ex offenders, people who have been in prison
-People who don’t fit the “norm” in other faith traditions
-Unmarried parents
-Divorced
-Special needs family member
-Physical disabilities
-Homeless
-Unemployed
-Illiterate, poor reading skills
-Persons with HIV/AIDS and other chronic illnesses
-Persons without transportation
-Latino/a people
-Asian people
-Non-religious, unchurched people
-Highly intelligent people (Mensans, etc.)

Identifying Priorities: Who Shall We Concentrate On Welcoming?

Outcasts – offer space for meetings? Make website even more obviously welcoming
Singles, Marrieds, and Gays With Children – add content to website, scheduling conflicts,
Persons In Crisis – this is a safe place, listening, offer information, referrals for support

Critical Mass – there needs to be more than just one kind of each kind of group. How to incorporate new people?

Highlights

IMG Fr Ted's Priorities

“There are lots of opportunities for ministry and evangelism” – Scott Eiler
We’ve begun to prioritize our passions
Be practical about keeping goals realistic and attainable
Shared concerns:

OUTREACH: Hunger, homelessness, literacy, animal welfare
EVANGELISM: Outcasts, people with children, persons in crisis, dialogue with persons of other faiths. We are struggling with how to welcome people in our midst and how to communicate this welcome to our larger community.

“We have to start with ourselves.” – Billie Matkov
“We have to see Christ in ourselves and in one another and the visitor in our midst.” – Pat Kalicki

What do we do next?

Monthly check-in with the larger congregation – end of Mass before dismissal
Need a facilitator – Ted, Colleen, Ginny etc. keep people informed and on track with reports

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